Thanks for everybody's help. But it still the same.
The Graphic card driver is from AMD official website, version 19.Q4.1, my windows 10 version 1909.
I tried with repair tools to repair the software, get rid of the other decoder software, and also tried to get rid of the audio stream in the video, also use -chunk 8 to recreate the new hap mov file, but still the same.
I also tried to convert video to H.264 mp4 format by using the commend line like:
ffmpeg.exe -i input.mp4 -c:v libx264 -preset slow -tune fastdecode -profile:v baseline -g 30 -bf 0 -b:v 25M -y output.mp4
The only thing is, I tried to use my friend's laptop Thinkpad P53 workstation as the server, and just installed the software, start program, then use my laptop send the video to it, it plays very well with H.264 mp4 file, have no idea what 's the problem.